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Faith Current's avatar

"Dean offered Derek a ride in his porch, Derek and Dean went off together and Dean performed oral sex on him a his “sex slave,” making Derek Dean’s last lover. This very much did not happen."

I'm curious to know how anyone could know whether or not this happened, a private moment between two people, other than the two people involved (and they would perhaps be motivated to lie about it in their lifetimes, given attitudes and such about masculinity).

Not at all asking to be accusatory or confrontational. Asking because this sort of "it absolutely positively didn't happen" statement happens a lot in the Beatles world as well, when it comes to private moments between two people. People get so sure about things that it seems to me there's no way to be sure about, so I'm curious as to what the reasoning is with regard to a story I don't have skin in the game for.

Thanks in advance for your answer. I always enjoy your articles and your somewhat parallel journey.

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ECMyers's avatar

If John Derek is "mostly forgotten," it's only by the culturally illiterate.

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